Submitted by Joceline on August 20, 2019, at 20:22
This is a very gentle, respectful explanation of the importance of using "they." The part that stood out the most to me was this: " I don’t use singular 'they' in order to make things harder for others, to be trendy, or to push any kind of agenda. I use it because it makes me feel like myself. It’s the right and most comfortable fit for me." Many of us need this wake up call of being reminded that the proper use of pronouns truly matters to the other person. Whether I agree, disagree, think it's trendy or whatever, is of no importance. What is important is to strive to be respectful to every individual one encounters. Thank you for this excellent educational and thoughtful piece.